Is This Relationship Worth Saving?

I'm at a crossroads in my relationship and I don't know whether to stay or go.

The main problems: [LIST]
How long this has been going on: [TIME]
What's keeping me: [love / fear / history / kids / finances]
What we've tried: [couples therapy / conversations / nothing]
My gut feeling: [HONEST ANSWER]

Help me think through this:
1. **The honest assessment** — repairable problems vs fundamental incompatibilities
2. **Questions I should be able to answer honestly** before deciding
3. **What staying actually looks like** — the realistic version, not the hope
4. **What leaving actually looks like** — the realistic version, not the fear
5. **How to know if I've given it enough** — or if I already know the answer
6. **The conversation to have with my partner** before I decide
7. **Next step** — not the final decision, just the next thing to do

I'm at a crossroads in my relationship and I don't know whether to stay or go.

The main problems: [LIST]
How long this has been going on: [TIME]
What's keeping me: [love / fear / history / kids / finances]
What we've tried: [couples therapy / conversations / nothing]
My gut feeling: [HONEST ANSWER]

Help me think through this:
1. **The honest assessment** — repairable problems vs fundamental incompatibilities
2. **Questions I should be able to answer honestly** before deciding
3. **What staying actually looks like** — the realistic version, not the hope
4. **What leaving actually looks like** — the realistic version, not the fear
5. **How to know if I've given it enough** — or if I already know the answer
6. **The conversation to have with my partner** before I decide
7. **Next step** — not the final decision, just the next thing to do